What should our next move be?
Okay we have a mobile home. We owe ,000 on it after nine years. No missed payments. We have a 2004 Kia spectra. We owe ,000 on it. We have a 2004 Trailblazer and we owe ,000 on it. We have no credit cards and no one will refinance ANY of what we have.
I want to move but obviously our house won’t sell for what we owe. We can’t get rid of the Kia because again its worth less than what we owe.
My husband works full time and has a great job. But overtime has been cut. So we really have no extra money. I homeschool our oldest and we have a one year old as well. I have no experience and no way to get any unless I pay for childcare. Which would defeat the purpose of having a job.
Is bankruptcy our only option? Please only serious answers. We are at a total loss. We are in our early 30’s and just want to actually start living and have a home. Not live in a trailer park raising our kids.
Wow thank you so much Ray and Percy! Well let me add more details. My husband makes about ,000-,000 a year. Depends on the year. He has had his overtime cut but still works like a dog. So he won’t be able to get another job.
As for things for me to do. I do buy and sell items on Craigslist as often as possible. Always making a profit. But having the spare cash for me to buy something that I’m not sure when I can sell doesn’t work so well.
We have two cars because he works and I stay home with the kids. I have the large car so we can all fit and go places together. We can’t get rid of it because we don’t fit in a ‘car’ and he wants something decent so it won’t break down on me. He is driving the Kia because it is better on gas mileage and we can’t get rid of it because no one will buy it. No one will buy either one since we owe more than they are worth.
I appreciate the advice and support because we have no one to ask that would help any. Thank you so much
As for cutting our expenses. We have no extra items to really speak of. I have a cell phone but we have no land line. I pay a flat rate and it is cheaper than a land line would be. We use cloth diapers so there is no expense there. I pay 0-0 a week on food for all four of us. The baby eats like an adult so there is no baby food to buy. All the clothes we get are from Goodwill or Craigslist. I never buy things that I can’t resell for more. Even our laundry soap is less than .03 a load. I use soap nuts. Super cheap and work well. So we are NOT living a ‘grand’ life so to speak. Its not like I am out spending money hand over fist. I am doing the very best I can to keep our expenses as low as possible.
The bills are:
Car- 0
Truck- 0
House-0
Lot-5
Insurance-5
Electric- 0 (and yes I turn everything off and air is set to 80 degress)
Phone
Cable and internet
Storage (no choice)
Then you have food and gas and other items. Does that help any?
Thank you for your kind words! I may take on children to babysit, the only problem is that I home school my oldest. (That also cuts bills for clothes and other items). So trying to home school and take care of my baby and additional children might be tough. But something I will consider. Thank you so much everyone for the kind words and help. I am truly reconsidering filing now. I felt like all hope was lost and now I feel that maybe bankruptcy isn’t our best option. Thanks!
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